The Symbolism of Swallowing

Its also been awhile since i've put something up here so I decided to switch up my normal flow of writing about all this lovey dovey stuff to talk about...

Fellatio...
Yes, Once again we're introducing this topic to you guys. But I'm bringing it on a different approach. I'm sure that most folks love the act of giving & receiving but there's alot that comes with the pleasure. There's actually an art to it.

I was on my facebook and a close friend of mine had posted a note pertaining to this topic. I thought it was very intriguing because I actually AGREE with alot of the stuff on this list. Now I hope I'm not being too graphic with bringing this up but hey, we're all adults here!

So let's break it down...

It's Tidy
Spitting is, quite simply, messy. Having a paper towel at the ready
can help, but even then, you have a cum-soaked towel to dispose of.
Same is true if he comes somewhere other than inside your mouth,
there's plenty of sticky jizm to wipe up. Just swallow and there's
no muss or fuss.

It's Quick
Even if cum is unpleasant (we have tips for making it much less so),
the fastest way to deal with it is to swallow. Running to the
bathroom to dispose of it or spitting it out on the spot will take
more time, and be less efficient, than just swallowing it.

It Lets the Man Relax
If a man has to worry about coming, feeling that it is an imposition
on the woman or the cause of unpleasantness, it creates tension
while receiving the blowjob. He cannot fully relax, and cannot fully
enjoy his climax. A woman who swallows both puts her partner at
ease. Also, she can continue sucking through the orgasm, "sucking
him dry", which men find both physically and emotionally satisfying.

The Symbolism of Swallowing
In Western culture, swallowing has deep symbolic significance. The
act of swallowing signals acceptance, blessing, and complete
transformation. Imagine spitting out champagne after a toast or
spitting out the wafer during communion. The insult and sacrilege
would be overwhelming. In the same way, spitting out cum is a
symbolic rejection to many men.

By swallowing, a woman indicates complete acceptance. She wishes to
consume, to commune with whatever comes from her lover. As she
imbibes the cum, it becomes part of her, he becomes part of her.
They are joined together in an intimate sacred bond like no other.

It's Polite
To quote one woman: "What sort of message does that convey to
immediately run to the nearest sink to spit? I'm comfortable enough
to get down on my knees and wrap my lips around your cock, but not
comfortable enough to swallow the fruits of my labor? I know I'd be
offended if my boyfriend ran to the bathroom to gargle with
mouthwash after going down on me. So, sure I swallow. It's almost
impolite not to."

It's Environmentally Friendly
Leaving your spunk in public places just isn't right, whether you're
dogging in the park or sucking at the cinema. And wasting tissues and
paper towels destroys trees and adds to our landfill problems.
Swallowing is the ultimate form of enviromentally-friendly recycling.

Very interesting I must say. So I just want to know, what do you think?

[ miss sophisticated ]

Do You Know What You Want In A Mate???

"i like nice eyes"

"i love guys with nice bodies"

"i hate it when females wear excessive amounts of make-up"

"i'm attracted to light-skinned guys"



everyone reading this blog has said something similar to one of these things, but is the person you describe as your preference really who you end up with??



When i was younger i used to sit down and write lists of all the physical qualities that i'd want in my significant other. Some of them included that he be dark-skinned, have braids or a neat cut, be taller than me, know how to dress and that he have nice eyes and a nice smile.



As i got older, my list changed EVERY single time. Something about my preferences ALWAYS changed and it made me think...does it really matter what our preferences are because no one really goes by them. If you were to ask me today what kind of guy i liked, my answer would be SO simple....



one that makes me laugh.



no, that's not ALL i want in my mate but it is the single first thing that i am attracted to. i dont care how good you look and if you meet every single preference that i have...if our personalities clash, it's NOT gonna work out.



If you took every guy i used to date or deal with on a level deeper than sex...NONE of these guys would look the same...so do i really have a preference. Now that i'm getting older, my preferences seems to be very different. i find myself more attracted to light skinned guys, bald guys, taller guys. But if a dark skinned dude with dreds that was the same height as me had me cracking up the first time we met...i'm gonna give him a chance.



I'd much rather live my life full of meaningful convos, laughter and being able to relate to who i end up with in the long run...then to sit there and just have a nigga i can look at who has a nasty attitude and no respect.



but trust...if i could combine BOTH...woooo weeee!!

i actually found someone who possessed all the INNER qualities i want in a man (& Lord knows he keeps me DYING LAUGHING)...as well as the OUTER beauty (because he is FINE!!)...just waiting for time and God to do their work ;-)





but anywho: Do you have any preferences? If so, how long have you had them and have they ever changed? Are looks or personality more important to you? Or are they both equally necessary in your relationships???